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Date: 05.16.17
God is Greater Than The Wrong That’s Been Done to You

When someone really does us wrong, there can be times that it’s tough to forgive, right? It presses us to the edge of ourselves where we’re forced to acknowledge there is a God who is greater than the wrong that has been done to us–that He can redeem it. And, in this acknowledgment, we recognize that no one can do anything that will ultimately destroy us.

Someone may stop loving you, insult you, steal from you, or abuse you, but they will never be able to destroy the love that God has for you or His sovereign rule over your life. They will never be able to destroy God’s plan to weave what has happened to you into a greater good. Someone may do you wrong, but God’s redeeming love is bigger—and He is bigger than your enemies. He is more powerful, more wise, and He knows the beginning from the end. He is sovereign. This is what Joseph acknowledged after his brothers threw him in a pit and sold him into slavery, “What you meant for evil, God meant for good.”

I invite you to think about something someone has done to you that has demanded forgiveness. Do you believe God is able to bring good out of the bad? Are you confident that His rule is sovereign? If so, let the person who has wronged you off the hook. Stop wishing that God would hurt them. Stop replaying the injustice in your mind. Stop telling people what they did. Stop wanting them to pay. Stop thinking that they have ruined your life and that you will never recover—because God is a redeemer. Seeing your situation with eyes of redemption will change your perspective and it will do your heart good. God isn’t done writing your story. He will weave the injustices into a greater whole. Isn’t this the promise of Romans 8:28? Do you believe it?

 

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8 thoughts on “God is Greater Than The Wrong That’s Been Done to You

  1. Thank you! I have been teetering between asking for them to hurt as badly as they hurt me aND asking God to please help me forgive them. You are right, I know this, and I am ready to wholeheartedly ask God to forgive and really try!

  2. Yes, I do believe Romans 8:28, as it has happened many times in my life, and our heavenly Father has always turned it around for His glory, and my good. What a Savior!

  3. Thank you Shana. I really needed this. I’ve been licking the wounds left a few times by someone I once considered close. Praise God He is a redeemer & treats us so much verter than we often treat each other!

  4. I need to read this every day. It is so true. I think that many of us believe we must remain in an angry stance to protect and/or display OUR innocence and THEIR guilt. But then we never “get over it.” We end up perpetuating the pain.

  5. Always love reading everything you write Shana.
    Also, I love the picture of you with your first grandchild. I cried tears of happiness for you.

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  • Thank you! I have been teetering between asking for them to hurt as badly as they hurt me aND asking God to please help me forgive them. You are right, I know this, and I am ready to wholeheartedly ask God to forgive and really try!

  • Yes, I do believe Romans 8:28, as it has happened many times in my life, and our heavenly Father has always turned it around for His glory, and my good. What a Savior!

  • Thank you Shana. I really needed this. I’ve been licking the wounds left a few times by someone I once considered close. Praise God He is a redeemer & treats us so much verter than we often treat each other!

  • I need to read this every day. It is so true. I think that many of us believe we must remain in an angry stance to protect and/or display OUR innocence and THEIR guilt. But then we never “get over it.” We end up perpetuating the pain.

  • Always love reading everything you write Shana.
    Also, I love the picture of you with your first grandchild. I cried tears of happiness for you.

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